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Field-Testing Tools & Appendices from the UNSUSTAINABLE Book


“Stewardship is not a milestone you reach. It is a muscle you build through daily, intentional repetition.”

~ Nance L. Schick, Esq.


Workplace conflicts don’t resolve because someone in your organization is brave enough to confront and control them. In fact, attempts to control the situation through demands or ultimatums often make the conflicts worse. You can’t ignore them and hope they go away, either. From high employee turnover to frequent complaints, sustainable organizations make room for resolution:

  • Early
  • Humanely
  • Without punishment

These tools, scorecards, and diagnostic matrices featured in Unsustainable: Why Our Workplaces Aren’t Working and What to Do About It are designed to shift your firm away from relying on personal heroics, instead designing a repeatable, sustainable operating system that keeps everyone focused on what matters most to the business and the individuals who contribute to its success.

You might notice something different about these digital downloads. Consistent with Third Ear Conflict Resolution’s HAQ Standard, these resources are completely un-gated. There are no email capture forms, subscription paywalls, or administrative barriers. Download them and use them whenever you see fractures in your workplace practices.


DISCLAIMER: Nance L. Schick, Esq. is admitted to practice law in New York State (2002). Although she is a lawyer, neither reading this post nor acting on it makes her your attorney.

This content is provided strictly for general educational and informational purposes. We do not guarantee any specific outcome. Even prior results do not guarantee similar outcomes.


1. Onboarding & Job Fit

  • The HAQ Standard (Appendix A): Evaluate screening, interviewing, and background processes, ensuring they respect human dignity and satisfy New York’s statutory compliance floors.

  • Conflict Profiles (Appendix E): Ensure behavioral profiling tools like DISC and Myers-Briggs are used to bridge human connection, rather than label people and treat them differently.

2. Inner & Outer Conflict Work

  • The Seven Choices (Inner Work) (Appendix B): Manage your default personality style under stress, and achieve the cognitive openness required for solutions-focused discussions.

  • The Five Actions (Outer Work) (Appendix C): Succinctly define structural disputes, distinguish personal interests from rigid positions, and design durable milestones.

  • Tools for Further Practice (Appendix H): De-escalate hardline, emotionally charged employee complaints and channel them toward collaborative partnership explorations.

3. Operational Continuity & Evaluation Loops

  • PARR as a Leadership Discipline (Appendix D): Monitor your team for signs of disengagement or Resentful Staying.

  • Mediation Methodologies Comparison Matrix (Appendix F): Select the right external intervention process to achieve the results you need.


Moving From Compliance to Partnership

Did using these diagnostic assessments reveal that your current management architecture is forcing your team into an unsustainable, multi-directional squeeze? You do not have to carry that burden alone.

  • For Enterprise Organizations: Learn how a fixed-fee Neutral Systems Evaluation can audit your internal investigative workflows and structurally insulate you from legal liability for workplace activities.

  • For Professional Practices & Small Businesses: Explore our as-needed legal consulting, training, and other services tailored to the unique needs of your business in its current stage.

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More DIY Resources

  • Unsustainable Book
  • How to Cultivate Employment Partnerships
  • Employment Law Compliance: A Mutually Beneficial Partnership

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