Listen for the hurt, the broken dreams, and the opportunities to heal them. Listen for the fears, the shame, and the cue to hug them. Listen not for the hate that developed in a …
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Blaming “Them” is a Convenient Way of Avoiding Responsibility for Your Life
A loved one picked me up from the airport one December. As we drove through the neighborhood, we enjoyed the colorful lights and decorations in various yards. Snowmen, Santa Claus, reindeer, menorahs, …
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What are You Willing to Put 10,000 Hours into Mastering?
One of the best ways to test the effectiveness of an exercise is to do it yourself. Hippocrates practiced medicine on himself. Great personal trainers actually do the workouts they ask their clients …
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Are You Stuck with All of the Terms in that “Standard Agreement”?
If you've been following Bonne D. Graham on SAP Radio's Coffee Break with Game Changers, you know I've been part of a roundtable discussion with my esteemed colleagues, Nina Kaufman and Renee L. Duff. …
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Ten Ways to Win Any Game
One of my best friends for nearly 20 years is a former hockey player and coach. We met when he was the Head Hockey Coach and I was the Ice Arena Manager at the State University of New York College at …