Simplicity is not something that comes naturally for most humans. We are complex, much like most living beings, and our brains allow us to be aware of this, for better or for worse.
Because of our complexity and sensitivity to our surroundings it is especially important for us to keep simplifying our lives. Our modern world does not make it easy. Demanding careers, financial responsibilities, perceptions, and “shoulds” seem to need constant attention while social media and other distractions steal it. Where does the time go? How can we get everything done? Life is short, will there be enough time for the lives we want?
Many of us are still feeling this way after the pandemic. Fortunately, Mary Carlomagno’s timeless workbook, The Secrets of Simplicity: Learn to Live Better with Less can help. Its wisdom resonates with anyone striving for career success and personal fulfillment.
Summary
Mary’s approach is refreshingly straightforward. The exercises are short and simple yet powerful. If you’re unsure what to keep, she can guide you through the process of choosing. She can also help you identify who you are beneath all of your possessions, reminding you that you were someone before you accumulated them and that you will still be someone regardless of what you have.
Here’s are some tips from The Secrets of Simplicity that can improve your experience at home and work:
- Focus on What Truly Matters. By decluttering our physical and mental spaces, we create room for growth, creativity, and productivity. Whether you’re a seasoned professional or just starting out, this clarity is invaluable.
- Separate Yourself from Your Possessions. Mary reminds us that we are not defined by our belongings. As professionals, we often accumulate material possessions, but they shouldn’t define our self-worth. That’s just asking for trouble when there’s already plenty to go around!
- Management Your Time and Make Room for Joy. The constant hustle for material possessions can leave us drained and disconnected. Mary’s workbook guides readers through exercises that free us from those that become distractions from our life goals and loved ones.
- Practice Every Day. Simplification is an ongoing process, and Mary’s book is one you can revisit whenever stress or clutter creeps in. It will, but you’ll be prepared.
Favorite Quotes
- Love what you have.
- You can never get enough of what you don’t really need” (citing Psychologist April Lane Benson).
- [M]an is rich in proportion to the amount of things he can afford to let alone (citing Henry David Thoreau).
Conclusion
The Secrets of Simplicity is a gift you can give yourself. Whether you’re navigating a demanding career, seeking work-life balance, or aiming for personal growth, Mary Carlomagno’s insights will empower you. She walks the walk, too, as I’ve seen since we became friends many years ago. When we met, she had a sense of freedom that I wanted but didn’t realize I had access to. I still sometimes forget I have it, but that’s when I go back to this book and re-do an exercise.