It's a strange feeling to be a textbook case of anything. Since being profiled in Dr. Jan Yager's book, Essentials of Victimology, I have joked about being a textbook case of repeat victimization. …
DIY Conflict Resolution
What to Do After Breaking Up with a Co-Worker
We know when we start dating co-workers that we are taking big risks, especially if we are in jobs we plan to stay in awhile. Sometimes it just seems worth it. But what if the risks prove to be too …
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Frequently Asked Questions About Strategic Planning
It's not easy keeping a business running smoothly for nearly 20 years, but I'll reach that milestone in June. Because of this, I am often asked for success tips. Below are some answers to some of the …
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Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas? What About Hanukkah and Kwanza?
Happy Holidays! Is it okay that I didn't say Merry Christmas? What is the "true meaning of Christmas"? According to whom? These are the questions that often arise at this time of year. They arise for …
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How to Deal with Someone Who Believes a Liar*
It can be challenging and frustrating when someone you love believes a person who lies, but this doesn't have to end the relationship. This conflict can be resolved, and your relationship with this …
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Master Your Employment Partnerships from Job Post to Termination
I am often asked what the biggest challenge in my business has been. I am always embarrassed to admit that my answer is usually related to staffing. Despite the exceptional training I received in …
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Seven Ways to Create the Peace You Want to See
(Updated from 10/17/2017) Here we go again. Another mass shooting. On a holiday. And several throughout the world over the weekend. I am reminded of October 16, 2017. That was another tense day …
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Limit Your Media Intake, Clear Your Mind
(Updated from 05/21/2018) I get sucked into the Internet and news abyss, too. A “quick check” for a Facebook status from an ill family member turns into 10 minutes (or more) of watching cats in …
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How can I talk to older generations about today’s politics?
(Originally posted 01/08/2021) I am from a non-traditional, sometimes dysfunctional family. My mother was only a few months short of her 40th birthday when she gave birth to me in 1969. She was …
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Is There Any Acceptable Racism?
I sometimes take unpopular positions. That's part of being a lawyer, but it's also an effective way of learning what is in our blind spots. As I re-read and updated this post again, as I do each year, …