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Frequently-Asked Questions About Employment Mediation

Nance Schick · Oct 14, 2024 ·


DISCLAIMER: This post gives a general overview of employment mediation. It is not legal advice, and there is certainly no guarantee that choosing mediation will generate a specific result. Past success is never a guarantee of a future outcome. If you require legal information or advice applied to your unique situation, please make an appointment to discuss it with an attorney. Don’t rely solely on what you read on the Internet.


Whether you are an employee-complainant or employer-respondent, you probably have several questions about the employment mediation process:

  • What is mediation?
  • When is it used?
  • Does it work for all kinds of workplace disputes?
  • How is it different from going to court?
  • Is it the same as arbitration?

Keep reading to get the answers you’re looking for. Or schedule a consultation using the link below.


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What is Mediation?

Mediation is a private dispute resolution process that allows you to select a neutral third party to help you, but the mediator’s role is very different from the role of an arbitrator or judge. The mediator will not make any decisions for you. There will be no determination of facts or blame. Instead, the mediator will help the parties identify the root causes of the dispute, what you all need to happen, and how to get the results you want. Ideally, you will reach an agreement settling the case. If not, nothing you discuss during the mediation can be evidence in arbitration or at trial. So, you are free to explore possible resolutions without adverse consequences.



Common Conflicts Resolved Through Employment Mediation

  • Conflicts among department or project managers
  • Discrimination and sexual harassment complaints
  • Employee attendance or performance disputes

The power you have over others isn’t the power you think you have. It’s the power that other people think you have.

~ Dr. Woo-Kyoung Ahn, Yale University



Who Does Mediation Benefit?

People like you and me find mediation to be an effective conflict resolution process. It often saves time, money, and relationships–including our relationships with ourselves, our health, our finances, and more.


Testimonials

You’re my favorite person to talk to when I have something like this. ~ R.L., Business Owner, NY 

I really, really appreciate everything you have done to help me with this process. It’s been great to move on. ~ A.S., Business Owner, NY

[T]hank you so much for your advice and expertise. I might be needing it again soon. The [client] asked me to do a [] budget for next year. ~ S.B., Business Owner, NY (repeat client)

You took my “spewing” and pull[ed] it down into a format that makes sense. This is SO helpful to me. You are truly gifted in bringing cohesive thoughts together while adding humor and sweet praise that is personal and meaningful. ~ C.H., Business Owner, PA

Nance is passionate about her vocation and about mitigating broken relationships. ~ B.H., Executive, DC

We consistently had to liase a high volume of information and prepare for mediations and other proceedings and Nance was always more prepared than everyone else. At the same time, she also has an exceptional people skills that stand out. I highly recommend Nance with respect to all endeavors. ~ E.F., Attorney, NY

I love your approach, I should have met you a long time ago. ~ H.S., Business Owner, NY



How Does Mediation Differ from Litigation?

The primary difference between mediation and litigation is the process. Unlike at trial, the focus is not on:

  • Facts
  • Evidence proving the facts
  • Liability or blame

We do not look to the past to figure out who the bad guys are so we can punish them. Instead, we focus on the future. Our goal is to create a mutually-agreeable plan that resolves the current dispute. We also consider ways to reduce the risk of a similar dispute.


How Does Mediation Differ from Arbitration?

Arbitration works a lot like going to court. The arbitrator(s) will review the evidence, including testimony, and decide how you the parties will resolve the complaint, based on what the arbitrators believe happened. For example, your employer might be directed to pay you money or reinstate your employment, if the arbitrator(s) believe you were discriminated against. If they believe your employer treated you fairly, you might receive nothing. Fortunately, most employers pay your share of the arbitration process, except for your attorney’s fees.


Starting the Employment Mediation Process

You can request mediation at any stage of the conflict resolution process.

  • If you have not yet filed a complaint with your employer, you can suggest mediation to your supervisor or Human Resources Department. You might need to file a complaint to get them to prioritize your issue, but you might also find that approaching your employer with a complaint and a request for a process to find a mutually-agreeable resolution also gets their attention.
  • If you have already filed a complaint with the New York City Commission on Human Rights, the New York State Division of Human Rights, or the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, mediation is available through that agency. Contact your case administrator for more information.
  • If you are an employer who has received a discrimination or sexual harassment complaint and want to propose mediation, request a consultation to see if we are a good fit.


Do You Need a Lawyer for Employment Mediation?

No, but you might want to consult one before you agree to employment mediation. As an employee, it might put your mind at ease and help you protect your rights to litigate if you don’t reach a settlement agreement in mediation. As an employer, your insurance contract might provide you with legal counsel. Your coverage might also require you to consult counsel before proceeding.


Where Can You Find a Lawyer?

If you are an employer, you might have insurance coverage that provides legal counsel for the mediation. Check your insurance policy for a “Duty to Defend” clause.

For representation beyond the mediation, we typically refer parties to the below attorneys:

  • Alison Greenberg
  • Joseph Harris, Barton LLP
  • Kenneth Katz
  • Deborah Shapiro
  • William Sipser

There might also be free or low-cost services available to some parties through:

  • The Legal Aid Society
  • Legal Services NYC
  • New York City Bar Association (City Bar)
  • New York City Small Business Services (SBS)
  • New York Legal Assistance Group (NYLAG)
  • Volunteer Lawyers for the Arts

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